Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi my friend blocked me on Thursday evening and I have been trying to find ways of contacting him as I’m the sort of person who wants to resolve things as quickly as possible back in February out of impulse and frustration me and the same friend argued he blocked me and I ended up going over his uninvited I only wanted to resolve the argument but instead made it worse as I pushed through boundaries. Me and my friend are close but we do have our arguments like we did on Thursday. Anyway long story short today out of impulse I bought a cheap smart phone and a pay as you go SIM card I then messaged him myself pretending to be my other friend and he took the bait. He basically said we are still friends but he wants space at the moment but was annoyed with the fact that he thinks I gave my friend his number which I didn’t it was me pretending to be my friend so I could find out what’s what. I am now regretting this as I used my friend as a pawn to get in contact with my other friend who isn’t speaking to me at the moment. I want to tell the truth now but I’m afraid that I’m going to cause more damage. My head is all over the place at the moment and I don’t know what to do. Should I tell the truth or just leave it be or should I wait a while before I tell the truth?
I can't remember whether I said this on another one of your threads a while back, but in case I had only thought it and not actually typed it, here goes....
I think that your behaviour is simply NOT ON! Not only on this occasion, but also from other threads that you have posted.The thing is, one day you'll take it too far and do a lot of damage to someone. I'd also be cautious as you're probably threading a very fine line in terms of the legality of what you are doing - not only the deceitful phone bit, but also you could easily find yourself getting into BIG TROUBLE regarding harassment.
IIRC, your friend also has mental health and/or autism issues, in which case YOU HAVE TO STOP THIS!