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Done something stupid and I regret it

Rach91
27 days ago

Hi my friend blocked me on Thursday evening and I have been trying to find ways of contacting him as I’m the sort of person who wants to resolve things as quickly as possible back in February out of impulse and frustration me and the same friend argued he blocked me and I ended up going over his uninvited I only wanted to resolve the argument but instead made it worse as I pushed through boundaries. Me and my friend are close but we do have our arguments like we did on Thursday. Anyway long story short today out of impulse I bought a cheap smart phone and a pay as you go SIM card I then messaged him myself pretending to be my other friend and he took the bait. He basically said we are still friends but he wants space at the moment but was annoyed with the fact that he thinks I gave my friend his number which I didn’t it was me pretending to be my friend so I could find out what’s what. I am now regretting this as I used my friend as a pawn to get in contact with my other friend who isn’t speaking to me at the moment. I want to tell the truth now but I’m afraid that I’m going to cause more damage. My head is all over the place at the moment and I don’t know what to do. Should I tell the truth or just leave it be or should I wait a while before I tell the truth? 

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  • 27 days ago

    id back off and wait. deny it if it ever comes up, never tell him that as it will likely cause a issue. thats what id do anyway. there is never any fix or benefit to telling him this, only more relationship breakdown and cut off.

    so its best to wait and give him the room he says he wants. sounds like he is ok with you and needs time and will be friends and contact you again. just dont tell him you did this or else he may not be friends with you again lol dont tell anyone, not even your other friend, remain ignorant of it, you dont even know about this text even if he questions you about it and becomes suspicious and even if he asked the other friend you claimed to be and he denies its him and then they start suspecting and questioning you... id still play ignorant and deny it... they cannot throw a relationship if you deny and claim ignorance of it... but if you let the ball slip its you, i dunno man, it could push them both farther away.

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  • 27 days ago

    id back off and wait. deny it if it ever comes up, never tell him that as it will likely cause a issue. thats what id do anyway. there is never any fix or benefit to telling him this, only more relationship breakdown and cut off.

    so its best to wait and give him the room he says he wants. sounds like he is ok with you and needs time and will be friends and contact you again. just dont tell him you did this or else he may not be friends with you again lol dont tell anyone, not even your other friend, remain ignorant of it, you dont even know about this text even if he questions you about it and becomes suspicious and even if he asked the other friend you claimed to be and he denies its him and then they start suspecting and questioning you... id still play ignorant and deny it... they cannot throw a relationship if you deny and claim ignorance of it... but if you let the ball slip its you, i dunno man, it could push them both farther away.

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