Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi
my 12 year old gets bullied everyday the school know who the main bullies are but when they bully the whole class laughs.
The bully’s mimicking him when he growls when he is concentrating and doesn’t want to make an error or unneat work. As he travels round the school the bullies do my sons growl.
In class they whisper to him and say tell teacher to shut up or we will hit you. My son tells me it goes on so long he gives in and shouts out to the teacher.
when he tell the bullies to stop he is removed from class.
The bully’s which are girls made a barrier so he couldn’t get into class every lesson when he tried to push past I was contacted to say my son was going to my charged for sexual aas he touched girls chest ( as he tried to get past)
he has been put in a head lock held on the floor and kicked in the head.
Another boy put a stick up his anal passage and nothing was done.
He has been given a chart if he ignores the bullying and not shout out for them to stop he will get blue tack. Surely they shouldn’t be laughing at him doing his autistic noises in first place.
Two weeks ago he threw his bag from a hiding which had a metal water bottle attached when two boys from class were doing his neurodiverse noise of growling . The bag missed the boys.my son has been banned from the school residential next week for throwing his bag.
They said they didn’t haves the staff to let him go plus he is deemed a danger,
Any advice and help my son is being discriminated against. This is the second trip he has been banned on. what can I do?
my son has had an assessment for counciling he has told them he feels suicidal. As he doesn’t understand why he gets punished for reacting ,when the bully’s aren’t stopped. He cry’s every evening at home.
The whole class laugh when he is being mimicked,my son gets removed from class not bully.
what can I do isn’t it his human right not to be bullied. It’s same children every time ?
please help I have developed a a terrible skin rash over the stress of my sons bullying I don’t know how to protect him . Anything legally I can do ?
all i can say is sod that school off, move him to a better school... that school sounds hopeless, and most are the same to be fair as i got bullied alot in school and teachers always seemed to join in or take the bullies side as if they are scared or made the choice of pleasing the majority as sticking up for the bullied would go against the majority and cause a class or school breakdown. they see that they have to always side with the majority... its the same as riot policing... when you have a rioting mob and one innocent guy who is being victimised... the police wont arrest or charge or deal with the criminal mob because theres too many of them... theyd move and arrest the victim because theres only 1 of them and the mob would calm down and be happy. this is just the way our society seems to work in all aspects. it probably is better not being apart of this society and finding a way to remove ourselves from it.
Caelus said:better not being apart of this society and finding a way to remove ourselves from it.
ted kaczynski, is that you?
Seriously, I worked in schools and colleges. This is one of the situations that cause teachers to leave. I spoke with many teachers, and they were all either planning to change career, or counting the days to retirement.
In this situation. the teachers cannot discipline the bullies because they fear the reactions of their families. They cannot protect the kid because SEN services have been defunded massively. Their only choice is to ignore the issue and hope that everything can be swept under the rug. I am happy to have no kids, I would never put them in such a dysfunctional environment.