Published on 12, July, 2020
Over the years I’ve read an awful lot of self help books and most of them were just a waste of money. But I’d like to think there are some gems that I just haven’t found yet.
So, can any of you recommend any books about social communication or social tactics/strategy? Ones that are actually useful?
Alternatively, what tactics and tricks have you learned to use to keep in touch with friends, make new friends or just reduce friction when dealing with other humans?
Amerantin (former member) said:what tactics and tricks have you learned to use to keep in touch with friends
I have lost touch with a lot of people over the years.
With regard to the 2 I still have I write in the calendar when I see them and try to ensure there isn't a long gap before I see them again.
I keep in touch daily by text with my autistic friend.
We are both very diligent with texts.
The other friend doesn't have a mobile so ringing her once a week goes onto my weekly to do list if she doesn't call first.
It's different with the few online friends I have made as I find that more relaxed.
These are just practical suggestions though and I suspect you are looking for more than this.
Also those who have or may have AD(H)D will have more to contend with.