Published on 12, July, 2020
I was curious.
I see a lot of people on YouTube, who, even when talking openly about their own Autism and Autism in general. Still admit to masking ALL the time. Even while making said videos. Which I can't fully understand why. I would think surely, given the purpose and audience. It would be okay to unmask. To be your true self.
Would anyone care to share what the differences are in your unmasked self compared to your masked self?
I for one. As if I'm not "different" enough. I don't mask. Never have. It's just something I don't do.
The list goes on. While I'm at it though, here are a couple of my sensory triggers which may not be common.
Both of these cause extreme sensitivity to the point of near meltdown.
Thanks for your thoughtful post.
I try to mask, but I'm not very successful at it. But I don't consciously unmask because I am too afraid and have not fully accepted my autistic self.
I try to listen to what people say and say the socially acceptable things - rather than what I would reply if I was unfiltered.
I try to give eye contact, even though I usually end up just looking at their mouths.
I try to make conversation, even though I'm always afraid of saying the wrong thing.
So I most of the stuff I mask is communication.
I'm still on my journey to self acceptance and coming out as autistic, so maybe conscious unmasking will come.
xx