Published on 12, July, 2020
DSM-5 says that to meet the diagnostic criteria for ASD there must be persistent deficits in all three of the areas below.
So why is it some of us are completely alone and isolated while others seem to have friends, partners and active social lives?
How do people who meet the above criteria achieve this?
My partner and friends are all neurodivergent too, so that helps. They're not all autistic, but there's enough overlap in experiences with people with things like ADHD that it's a lot easier to find common ground and not misinterpret each other's words/behaviour.
It's also worth bearing in mind that although the diagnostic criteria say that autistic people have deficits in these areas, that's only true in comparison to neurotypical people. If you think of those 'deficits' as being the natural autistic way of communicating it makes a lot more sense that we often do much better with this stuff when we're around other autistic people.