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Friendships - Are they real?

Magnolia1
9 months ago

I am questioning all my friendships at the moment & wondering if these people really are my friends.

It seems like I initiate all the contact and that they are only friends with me because of what they can get out of me. 

There is one person I really thought I was getting on well with but not enough to get an invitation to NYE. 

I even feel like my own husband is a stranger. We both have our own interests and hardly have anything to do with each other any more. 

I am feeling v lonely ,confused & full of doubt.

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  • 9 months ago

    A true Friend is a person who has not heard from you in a while and asks if you are o.k.
    Don't be a people-pleaser.
    Hang back and see who comes to you.
    You can then filter out the " un-needed"
    It might be worth sitting down with your Husband and hearing each other out, like a heart to heart.
    You both lay your cards on the table.
    Am no expert but you both need to talk.
    As for others ? Value yourself, you will attract genuine people.
    Best wishes.

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  • 9 months ago

    A true Friend is a person who has not heard from you in a while and asks if you are o.k.
    Don't be a people-pleaser.
    Hang back and see who comes to you.
    You can then filter out the " un-needed"
    It might be worth sitting down with your Husband and hearing each other out, like a heart to heart.
    You both lay your cards on the table.
    Am no expert but you both need to talk.
    As for others ? Value yourself, you will attract genuine people.
    Best wishes.

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