Published on 12, July, 2020
As an older person with Autism, I was brought up in very different times with different thinking, values, acceptance, behaviour, etc (1970's & 80's).
The World has changed so much since then - both for better and worse.There have been so many advancements - particularly in science and this has benefitted us ASD'ers immensely.
One thing that is troubling me is that I hold a lot of "principles" that in this day and age would be considered "Old Fashioned", "Traditional", maybe even "Bigotry" or worse.There are things that I struggle to understand or accept which are based on my traditional attitude. I was brought up in an era when....
I openly discuss or rant about these topics along with some others that may be considered taboo with closed friends and family who have all become somewhat numb to my outrageousness / inappropriateness.
I have however managed to "behave" in public (stayed on the right side of the law), but occasionally do mutter things with a level of cowardice.My concern is that now that I am officially autistic, the shackles of having to mask may have been broken and that has the potential of me saying the wrong thing at the wrong time.
I understand perfectly.
It seems that we have to suffer; due to someone else's bad childhood.
Kids aren't innocent anymore. They're egged on to be antagonistic. It's as if the State wants to Parent them.
I don't mind Gays. At Uni, I befriended a Gay man. However, all this demand for Drag Queens to teach Primary School Kids is gross.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think that I am homophobic. Likewise, I have had the odd gay friend in the past (no pun intended by the use of the word "odd").
It's just that it wasn't a "thing" back then. I t has certainly become a thing now which I guess is the choice of the individual. BUT I cannot lie, I think that it has gone TOO FAR in ways such as the Drag Queens that you mention. I am not a fan of the overly extrovert members of the gay community. I am not a fan of Gay Pride marches - I mean, its not like we have a white heterosexual march - if we did, then there would be uproar.
Personaly I'm not at all sure it would be a bad thing is we did have hetrosexual pride marches. It seems to me that hetrosexual men in particular can't express any joy in their own sexuality these days with out being accused of being mysogynists. It really shouldn't be seen as a mysogynasist sentiment to say that, as a hetrosexual man, you find women sexualy atactive and would like to have sex with them. But if you pop your head above the parapet and say this you are liable to get your head bitten off.
Maybe if we all clubed together, say in a march, we could renormalise openly showing sexual desire towards women. (which clearly is a difrent thing from sexually harasing people)