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Just a thought

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over 1 year ago

Recently I have asked various people about how to initiate the process of friendships and bonding, but their answers have always been passive i.e, "it will happen when it happens" or "you're better off being by yourself" which I find counterproductive.  

To put it bluntly, I am f******lonely.  Maybe it is my instinctive need for belonging and companionship that is compelling me to seek that out.

Am I wrong?

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  • over 1 year ago

    I met my wife on a Kate Bush online forum, in 2007. We met for real in 2008, and got married in 2009. Forget dating sites etc. - if you can find someone who shares your interests to a significant degree, you will make friends, and it may lead to romance. A meeting of MINDS is more important than physical attraction, especially to neurodivergent people. 

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  • over 1 year ago

    I met my wife on a Kate Bush online forum, in 2007. We met for real in 2008, and got married in 2009. Forget dating sites etc. - if you can find someone who shares your interests to a significant degree, you will make friends, and it may lead to romance. A meeting of MINDS is more important than physical attraction, especially to neurodivergent people. 

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