Published on 12, July, 2020
Does anyone know any dating coaches trained to work with autistic men in or near gonzales louisiana, or any dating apps or services that might help get rid of chronic loneliness and chronic isolation? I tried hiki, but was most people i met weren't even autistic and one guy even was posting hate towards autistic in the public update area calling autistic retards ect. Anyway I have no friends, no one who i feel i can talk too since my mom died recently, i stay basically jailed in my room for weeks because its too hot togo anywhere, because I've no car, friends ect, and my mind is braking down to the point im starting to become jealous of my mother because she passed away and atm, death seems much better than basically being stuck in my prison with no friends plagued by thoughts of everyone else with their girlfriends and families, and I'm to the point of making a deal with the devil himself just to get friends. At this point I'd trade my salvation just to have friends to hang out and socialize wtg.
I understand feeling deeply lonely for an extended period of time - I lost all of my friends to very traumatic circumstances about two years ago and my mental health plummeted in the six-eight months after that. My best advice is to look for social events near you. I understand that social events can be quite difficult and uncomfortable for some people, but seeing as you seem to want to have friends/ be less lonely I'm hoping you might at least consider it.
parkrun saved my life. It genuinely did. I went down to an event last June on a whim and I found my people. People with similar interests to me, who care about me, who ask after me and who have made me feel less alone. I don't know if there will be one near you or if that would even be something you would be interested in, but look for something like that. There will be your people out there. You just need to keep looking.