Struggling With Friends

I'm struggling with my friends. I managed to get myself some friends, neurotypical. But they comment on my autism and my being different.. and because of that I feel like I need to be different. I've started acting different, masking I think it is, and it's draining me physically and mentally. I've been feeling ugly as well, worried no one will want to marry me because I don't look that attractive. I'm feeling particularly self critical now.

Parents
  • You have to love yourself first to be attractive to others.
    They should not comment on your Autism, they should accept and support you.
    I would question your defination of " friends ".
    As far as Marrige is concerned, you really need to be in the right place to even consider it.
    Get to know yourself first.
    Great self-esteem will attract your perfect partner.
    Best wishes.
    Stay cool.

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  • You have to love yourself first to be attractive to others.
    They should not comment on your Autism, they should accept and support you.
    I would question your defination of " friends ".
    As far as Marrige is concerned, you really need to be in the right place to even consider it.
    Get to know yourself first.
    Great self-esteem will attract your perfect partner.
    Best wishes.
    Stay cool.

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