Published on 12, July, 2020
I have spent my whole life looking for a comfortable bra, but to no avail.
When decency allows I go without but I gave up doing that outside after some embarrassing experiences.
So, I have thrown away more uncomfortable bras than I've had hot dinners (slight exaggeration).
It's only struck me this evening (light a bolt of lightning, but less dramatic) that as other women seem to tolerate them, maybe it's the autism that makes me hate them and be constantly aware of a section of my body being squeezed.
I wonder if others on here have similar experiences?
Apparently we 'should' because it's what everyone does and is expected of us.
But I do what's right for me so I don't wear them. Bras are uncomfortable. They dig in to my skin, the material irritates and they cause more sweating.
If people don't like to see me or other women without a bra then don't look!
I choose comfort every time.
I think people are more upset that a lot of people do like to see girls without bras ;)