Cleaning and tidying

Hi, I’m new here and hoping for some help and advice!

Basically, I don’t trust anyone to clean my house and I don’t like people touching my stuff.  I have a baby and my partner I think is messy (although he doesn’t).

I don’t like cleaning myself and I don’t really have the time to do much anyway.  But I don’t want anyone to do it because I don’t trust them to do it properly, I think there will be chemicals everywhere and especially the smells, and people will touch my things.

Is any of this sounding familiar??  I don’t want to feel like this, it’s so stressful.

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  • Yes, at least some of it is familiar (I think): e.g. when speaking to others, I sometimes describe strong smells as 'high-pitched' but they don't understand. I don't like having liquid on my hands either.

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  • Yes, at least some of it is familiar (I think): e.g. when speaking to others, I sometimes describe strong smells as 'high-pitched' but they don't understand. I don't like having liquid on my hands either.

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