Are there things you just 'don't get' in life? (as in understand the rules of)

Thanks to  in another thread (root beer) I've been thinking of the many things I've just 'not got' and done wrong.

Usually the clue that I'm not 'getting it' is the look of wonder on the faces of other people.

I'm suspecting now this may be autism related.

There are countless examples during my life but here a few.

McDonalds: I don't really understand McDonalds and I don't spend time in them without another person.

My mum used to like them so I'd take her there for lunch sometimes.

One of the 1st times she asked me to collect a menu for her and some cutlery.

I couldn't understand why these weren't on the table.

So, I went to the counter and asked for these things.

After this initial trauma, I then had the trauma of trying to understand what you are supposed to eat off of and with.

Doh.

McDonalds is a particular thing with me I think.

I was with my autistic friend on our way back from visiting his mother and we went to a McD.

He asked me to get him a 'root beer'.

So, I asked for such at the counter only to be asked what that is.

I said 'I don't know' so no root beer was presented to my friend.

Doh.

Another prime example is going to a spa and swimming baths in a hotel.

I'm not a swimmer or a spa goer.

So, the 1st thing I did was put my make-up on before going there.

Then, I couldn't understand how the lockers worked and had to get assistance.

Then, I eventually found the toilets but couldn't find my way back to the swimming pool so I walked through reception soaking wet in my swimming costume.

I was also in a church once when a service began and loads of people sat around me.

I had gone in there because I was in a strange city and cold and was using the church as a refuge.

I thought I could just sit there whilst the service took place.

I hadn't anticipated communion and although I'm not a Catholic or a church goer, and although I didn't understand what I was doing, I felt obliged to follow everyone up and take communion. 

There are so many examples I won't continue.

Is it just me or are there other people here who just don't 'get it?'.

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  • McDonalds is a particular thing with me I think.

    I visited McDonalds again today for the 1st time in a long time.

    It was for the sake of my husband.

    I tried to find out what is in their veggie products - no-one knew.

    I explained that I wasn't asking the details of the vegetables - I just wanted to avoid meat substitutes like quorn,  which I hate.

    Veggie burgers with veggies or beans in are fine.

    Two member of staff did try to be helpful but they just didn't seem to understand.

    Someone went off for about 10 minutes, had spoken to the manager, and came back to advise me that she could tell me all the things in it that I might be allergic to but that she wasn't allowed to tell me the ingredients!

    I eventually managed to find something that looked like it might be OK (from the picture) and was, but then changed seat 3 times because of all the noise.

    Then, on leaving, I couldn't understand where to put all my rubbish and ended up putting it in the wrong holes.

    Never again.

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  • McDonalds is a particular thing with me I think.

    I visited McDonalds again today for the 1st time in a long time.

    It was for the sake of my husband.

    I tried to find out what is in their veggie products - no-one knew.

    I explained that I wasn't asking the details of the vegetables - I just wanted to avoid meat substitutes like quorn,  which I hate.

    Veggie burgers with veggies or beans in are fine.

    Two member of staff did try to be helpful but they just didn't seem to understand.

    Someone went off for about 10 minutes, had spoken to the manager, and came back to advise me that she could tell me all the things in it that I might be allergic to but that she wasn't allowed to tell me the ingredients!

    I eventually managed to find something that looked like it might be OK (from the picture) and was, but then changed seat 3 times because of all the noise.

    Then, on leaving, I couldn't understand where to put all my rubbish and ended up putting it in the wrong holes.

    Never again.

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