Published on 12, July, 2020
Were any of you bullied as children/teenagers? I was subjected to mild mocking/teasing at prep school, but that was nothing like the severe verbal bullying I was subjected to at public school. I was introverted,shy,badly coordinated and socially awkward/naive. In other . words, not like the usual brash and extremely self confident people that went there. Nearly 50 years later and I still struggle with the psychological effects of it. I've never been able to pursue further education in a bricks and mortar setting for fear of being bullied and mocked My 1st psych admission was at the start of my last term at public school, the A level term.Hence no A levels and no degree.
My self belief and sense of self worth is gossamer thin. Ditto my self confidence. If I do well at something my mind says 'everyone can'. If I do badly at something then I'm stupid.
I was bullied at school.Hell on Earth.I bulked up, got an attitude and now i bully bullies.They pick on the weak,so they ARE weak.They do it because we let them.Start believing in Yourself and preserve Your pride.Defend Your Morals.I never used to say "boo" to a goose, now when i say boo the justy explode in a whirlwind of feathers.Learn to say " NO" and You will soon find an inner respect and confidence You never knew You had.