Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi there I'm Cassidy and I'm need of some advice please.
I have Autism which I do struggle with on a daily basis, don't we all? I mostly struggle with noise, going out, talking and things breaking my usual routine. Somehow I managed to get in a relationship and it's going ok. I don't think I'm an amazing girlfriend but he seems to like me so I guess that's nice.
But recently he's started talking about us having a baby. And I'm not really sure what to do. He tells me I'd be a great mum but I don't think I would. I have meltdowns a lot. And I can't stand babies, nothing personal I just don't like the constant crying and being sick :/ But lately he's getting really pushy and when we have intercourse he takes off protection even though I tell him not to. I don't think I want to get pregnant. There's a lot of factors here working against me. I think I'd be a terrible mum and I've also got a brain tumour which I haven't told anyone about yet. That's something else I need help with. I'm going to die and I don't know how to tell my mum, dad and sisters and brother. It's getting bigger all the time and sometimes I faint. I told my boyfriend the fainting is related to my low vitamin intake.
Not sure what to do about both things.
Hey, obvs I don't know either of you,.but if he can't grasp the fact that it is YOUR choice then well..... I'd show him the door. On another note, I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now I'm so sorry to hear that, but it would be good for you to tell someone perhaps you parents? They may be able to help you, also maybe perhaps speak to your Dr, They maybe able to help you explain to your parents. Sorry of that sounded ranty, sounded better in my head, but all down to one my point is.... It's YOUR body and it's YOUR life, and please don't go through this alone. I wish you all the best luck! Always around if you need a chat about anything