When it comes to messaging people or talking

Just wondered if it's me thing or an autistic thing but when I write I tend to write very long messages ramble on and I think sometimes people find me tiresome or intence as I talk to much. Like I'll just go of on one rather than talking to them more talking at them. Luckily my freinds are pretty tolerable of me and understand my condition. But was just wondering if anyone ellse has the issues when it comes to camunicating. Bare in mind I spend most of my days by myself probably the only time I go out is for drinks once a fortnight or to the gym. Hence why I'm usually on here spew off on one as I do t have much interactive with people during the weeks. Partly why I wish had a job at times.

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  • Me too. I'm learning not to. I used to go on and on about a subject til I was sure the person had 'got it' 100%. But now I know that they can't cope with too much information. They get bored and don't like it. So I'm learning to cut it short. I cut my emails shorter and if people look bored when I'm talking, I cut the speaking short. I'm getting good at spotting boredom in people now.

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  • Me too. I'm learning not to. I used to go on and on about a subject til I was sure the person had 'got it' 100%. But now I know that they can't cope with too much information. They get bored and don't like it. So I'm learning to cut it short. I cut my emails shorter and if people look bored when I'm talking, I cut the speaking short. I'm getting good at spotting boredom in people now.

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