anyone else get this when they go out?

so today i went out, had to go to specsavers appointment, plus i was also switching a big wad of old 20s to new 20s.

anyways on way home group of 3 topless prettyboy lads walk past me and as they walk past close one of them jerks at me as if to feign a attack and shouts "BOOO" in my face... like total stranger for no reason.... anyone else get this type of crap when they go out? or is this just me that gets random strangers tryna intimidate me for no reason?

anyway, why the feck should a stranger even bother to interact with a random stranger they pass? especially in this way? what if i hit the guy, does he think of this? ofcourse hes probably confident as he had 2 mates with him and i was just me..... tbh if i wasnt carrying a sizable amount of money id have gladly tried to see if they could all live up to their image. as for image my brain always judges everyone as larger than me, but thinking on it perhaps they maybe larger in body but definately not in muscle tone. 1v1 with one of them would be interesting if i didnt have anything to lose on me, and perhaps if it wasnt so hot. 

i guess its just todays society and crappy upbringing of a entire generation of scum. 

anyway if anyone wants to know the town that has scum like this in, its wigan. if you want to avoid scum then avoid wigan. id guess all sizable towns are like this though? 
is it perhaps that we need to bring back smacking kids? ... smack them while they are kids so that they dont need to be smacked harder by a total stranger when they are a adult when they try intimidate that stranger?

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  • I've had exactly the same. I've even got a routine, nice, pleasant but cognitively destabilising reply in the hopper...

    You sound a bit more "handy" than me, so you may not have had as much time to get used to it. It seems to be normal neurotypical behaviour to go out and find someone to pick an argument with, and they derive pleasure from it if you play the game as it is meant to be played. "Games People Play" a book that I often recommend as a "self help book", also places the rules of most neurotypical games in front of you, and you then get a real of choice of whether to play or not and supplies the knowledge you need to beat many would be attackers without having to take your hands out of your pockets.

    I once got to watch a would-be mugger trying to stay "on script" whilst I just kept fucking up his game until he gave it up in frustration so he went to get his mate to help him have a second go.which as it happened also failed, when I did take my hands out of my pockets.. My hands were empty, so no-one got hurt, and we all learned a few life lessons before I finally got to go home...

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  • I've had exactly the same. I've even got a routine, nice, pleasant but cognitively destabilising reply in the hopper...

    You sound a bit more "handy" than me, so you may not have had as much time to get used to it. It seems to be normal neurotypical behaviour to go out and find someone to pick an argument with, and they derive pleasure from it if you play the game as it is meant to be played. "Games People Play" a book that I often recommend as a "self help book", also places the rules of most neurotypical games in front of you, and you then get a real of choice of whether to play or not and supplies the knowledge you need to beat many would be attackers without having to take your hands out of your pockets.

    I once got to watch a would-be mugger trying to stay "on script" whilst I just kept fucking up his game until he gave it up in frustration so he went to get his mate to help him have a second go.which as it happened also failed, when I did take my hands out of my pockets.. My hands were empty, so no-one got hurt, and we all learned a few life lessons before I finally got to go home...

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