Published on 12, July, 2020
It has been a while since I have been on this site and I thought it was the right time to come on and discuss with other autistic adults and about things. I am 25 years old and live in the Wirral. Recently (last month) my Nanna passed away not from the virus but from other health issues. I miss her so much and her funeral was difficult. I am okay now, but just realising all that is happening with virus etc makes you wonder how short life really is.
I have mentioned on someone’s post that people I use to know in school/college that I remember have moved on with relationships, marriage, kids, houses, jobs etc I understand that I need to get out there to be able to pursue them myself but I am having trouble. I have had now support since my diagnoses in 2017, I live with my parents since I know I won’t be able to cope living on my own. I have no job (been on the six for 4 years+), and I am just getting somewhere with help to start my dream job working with animals. But I feel with this pandemic that I’m not getting anywhere in life.
What I am asking is does anyone have any tips/advice to help me get my life on track? I just want to live a life like everyone else and not be alone, unemployed and unachieved for the rest of my life. I hope I don’t sound too moany or weepy I just need support. Even if it’s just someone to talk to x
If you're looking for a low-pressure start, have you considered pet-sitting services?
I have thought about that, but wasn’t sure if I needed qualifications to do that type of job x
Thank you for giving me some ideas, i will have a look and see what comes up. I am hoping to meet someone tomorrow who has her own business and she has offered me to come with her on her rounds giving me experience and knowledge for animal care. She has even said she will help me with online courses that could help me get the qualifications i need to pursue a career with animals x
There are a variety of websites where you can register as a pet sitter on a more self-employed basis. It depends on the service users if they think you are suitable or not, qualifications and experience put you ahead of the game, it really depends on supply and demand. Particularly post covid I suspect there will be a lot of people travelling and looking for pet sitters at the same time, so now should be a great time to start.
I haven't reviewed any of these channels so can't suggest a specific video, but would start by having a look at some of these.
https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=being+a+pet+sitter
Incase they don't mention it, I would also consider liability insurance. This is relatively cheap and easy though.