Published on 12, July, 2020
I have a parent who doesn't understand other people let alone autism even though i have explained many times and she has looked up info herself and i provided but seems like she cant remember.
We co rent and i have lent her £800 of which she paid 250 back but has said that all the help she's given is enough and on other times has said she will pay it back,i dont believe her.
She helps me everyday but goes to my sister who abused me when i was little to see her grandchild.
I can't live on my own or at least not without my dog and someone to meet up with daily, i cant work atm because I'm not fit enough.
I try my best all the time to help others when i can but when i ask for help, i get it grudgingly and feel so under appreciated.
I know i need to get strong enough to support myself but i know i need help getting to that point
I don’t think there’s any single approach to solving thus issue, but if you feel you need people to talk to at least (seeing as meeting with people is an impossibility with coronavirus) then maybe the starting point is there - either chatting time people through here or other sources. As for the family situation, I’m not sure what to recommend there.