I am falling apart, I have had my heart broken stamped on and basically sh!t on from a very great height. It is all I can do to put one foot in front of the other, here is why.
I have had 18 months of trouble at work with a tribunal coming up.
Been in a love less marriage to somebody that gave me no support financial or otherwise.
I am separating from this person
Thought I'd met the love of my life, then found out, I am not a priority, an inanimate web site is, by the way it has 6 members and is run by a bossy dictator.
I have no income my pay was stopped in August I have approx £100 a month to live on.
Just as I thought it couldn't get any worse it has.
The supposed love of my life PMd me and asked me to stop speaking to the dictator,WTF! Obviously know where his loyalties lie.
I am on 150 mg of Sertriline which are not even touching the sides, my heart is broken and yet the person I loved more than I thought possible has sided with Slack!
I have posted my desperation and not one single supportive response. Fu** the lot of you!
I've just read it and I'm just about to type a response xx
11 views and no support what sort of a 'support' forum is this? you can all go to he'll!
Gosh this is an awful situation. I'm not sure what to say. It is really painful when someone you love turns out to not be what you thought.
The amount of money you're living on at the moment is horrifically low. If you're not already I would get yourself to the GP for an emergency appointment and ask them to sign a letter or give you a pass to use the local food bank so you would at least save money on buying food. If you don't have many savings, you might need to get to the Citizens Advice Bureau if there is one near you to ask them how is the best way to declare yourself homeless with the council.
You probably know already but you don't have to actually be living on the streets to declare homeless, you can explain that you're in the process of splitting up, have Asperger's/Autism, that the relationship is toxic so the house isn't a safe place to be, that you are more vulnerable than an NT in a streets/hostel living situation (give all the details you can), and you should be given priority and placed at the top of the housing list. If you need an emergency loan of money, are there any family members nearby who could help? Or is there a credit union nearby? They do loans that are a lot less interest repaid than banks.
I didn't reply as I really didn't know what to say.
I've only just read this and was about to post a response. Sometimes, I think people just find it hard to find the right words to say.
Is there anyone you could speak to (or even move in with) while you need some extra support? Maybe there's a family member/trusted friend you could stay with while you're going through all this?
I wasn't thinking of you,I you are an absolute star! you will never know what a difference speaking to you has made. xxxx
I'm so so sorry for how you are feeling at the moment!
Work related trauma is a nightmare. I hope it gets resolved soon!
I expect that you have been damaged from being in a loveless marriage without any support! I'm not surprised that you are separating from him!
Feeling that you are not a priority is difficult! When we're in a relationship we need to feel that our significant other prioritises up above anybody or anything else. Without this we don't feel cared for, or validated or loved.
The income situation is rubbish, can anything be done to alleviate that?
Sadly, medication is no cure for heartbreak.
We gonna have a girly day out and take your mind off of things ;-) xxx
I know you weren't, it takes a while for notifications to show or we probably both pressed reply at the same time. Happy to be of help xxx
Thank you I used to be like you but now, sadly, I know
some just turn a blind eye. I am at my mum's at the moment, I do have friends to talk to but as you probably know, sometimes that isn't enough, thanks for your support, it means a lot. xxx