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Looking for a relationship

Gorgeouse George
over 4 years ago

Hi.

I have been looking for a girlfriend for some time now.

I'm a mechanic and there are absolutely no girls were I work. There are no girls in my social circle either.

I try to strike up conversations with girls I meet but none of them seem to interested in talking to me.

anyone got any suggestions?

Parents
  • over 4 years ago

    I find group socialising incredibly stressful due to filtering out noise, knowing when it’s ok for me talk etc. As such, Meet Up events don’t work for in regards to finding a partner. I much prefer the 1:1 interaction of online dating and met my husband through Bumble.

    I liked the man to make the first move re arranging a date. I also expected them to ask me to meet f2f within a couple of days of messaging as this demonstrated that they were keen and serious about starting a relationship. Plus, it enabled both of us to move on quickly if there was no spark in real life. 

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  • over 4 years ago

    I find group socialising incredibly stressful due to filtering out noise, knowing when it’s ok for me talk etc. As such, Meet Up events don’t work for in regards to finding a partner. I much prefer the 1:1 interaction of online dating and met my husband through Bumble.

    I liked the man to make the first move re arranging a date. I also expected them to ask me to meet f2f within a couple of days of messaging as this demonstrated that they were keen and serious about starting a relationship. Plus, it enabled both of us to move on quickly if there was no spark in real life. 

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  • over 4 years ago in reply to NAS50301
    NAS50301 said:
    I find group socialising incredibly stressful due to filtering out noise, knowing when it’s ok for me talk etc. As such, Meet Up events don’t work for in regards to finding a partner. I much prefer the 1:1 interaction of online dating

    I am the same.

    I wonder if it is realistic for me to find someone nice and loving ever...