Published on 12, July, 2020
I am a male in my late 30’s and it is a question that has dogged me all my life. I don’t have/never had a girlfriend or any relationship.
As a child I was always called “gay” as put down, yet I don’t really find men sexually attractive. This is from childhood.
I don’t really find women sexually attractive either. I see my life as the ideal wife and kids, but I’m always questioning.
Perhaps that’s what I am. Always questioning.
I wouldn’t talk to my parents about it, love em, because they are of an older generation.
So I thought I would try on here.
By the way, I do not give permission for anyone to use any or part of this publication for research or for any other purposes.
So, that's fine... you could be asexual... if you HAVE to have a label.
Does it matter? If you want a female parter and kids and can form a romantic or platonic connection with someone who has matching preferences then that's what's important.
Labels are for clothes... and it's common for people with ASD to find them irritating and cut them out.
No labels, just comfort!