Anyone? I see that the forum is active. Im in the wrong in what i said?
You're not wrong in what you said at all. I wasn't sure what advice I could give you which was why I didn't answer to begin with.
Some of the comments you got on moneysavingexpert were really horrible. You are not the fool, those other ignorant people are.
I am so sorry about your situation. Have you tried getting advice from the Citizens Advice Bureau? There may also be specialist charitable organisations that could assist you.