Do any parents find it difficult to know the best way to support their child after a late in life diagnosis? Our son has recently been diagnosed with Aspergers and OCD aged 22. He is struggling to come to terms with his diagnosis and is frustrated with the rest of the family because he thinks we should be doing more to support him by reading books on his disorder or doing more research so we have a better understanding of how it affects him. I have been on various websites and have previously completed an online course in Understanding Autism but I don't know what it is he is expecting from us. He hasn't changed in our eyes since his diagnosis therefore I don't know what we should be doing differently?