My little brother who is 7 is currently going through the diagnosis for autism. He is cared for by my mam and when she is working he stays with his grandma and grandad. I try to help out as much as can and although I feel massively guilty for saying this, sometimes I really don't like looking after him. I have researched, my mam has told me a lot from the psychologist who has been working with my brother and I've also joined nas forum\group so I understand and empathise that my brother has behaviours that are due to him being autistic, however some behaviours I feel are just lack of respect and misbehaviour. I know my mam works very hard but I do feel lack of routine, boundaries and discipline is a massive part of some behaviours but also feel like a lot of people in my family let bad behaviour slip "because he has autism". Could anyone give me some advice on what sort of behaviours will not associate with autism and the importance of discipline, routine and boundaries and how best to put them in play for a person with autism. Thanks very much for reading and any reply would be greatly appreciated :)