Published on 12, July, 2020
My daughter is 18. She has been suffering with anorexia and body dysmorphia since she was 13. Academically she is exceptionally able but has always struggled socially. She has only recently, in the last year, had the Asperger's diagnosis. She is devastated about and cannot accept it. Her meltdowns have increased and her eating has severely deteriorated. She is refusing to receive any support. Is anybody else experiencing a similar situation?
I have learnt over the past few years about comfort foods. I’ve suffered from dieting conditions where some foods make me feel it just by the smell. I found that some foods become comfort foods. From Frosties in the morning (my Nan used to give me them as a child) Shepard’s pie, fried breakfasts especially sausages, biscuits seem to be popular amongst other autistic people including me, apples are great as well. Everyone is different and they won’t know that it’s their comfort food but when dealing with stress or long periods without eating I found these work to best to pull me out and get me on top of it.
In regards to rejecting the diagnosis, I have no idea. I welcomed it with open arms. Having Aspergers not only solved the difficulties I had at a younger age but it’s almost a super power. I look for the positive features I have and work to improve them. Be careful that your daughter doesn’t slip into alcohol or substance addiction, that is unfortunately a path some go down to make themselves feel more normal. I’m not going to say that cbd is bad though. It helped me control my thoughts when they went wild a few years ago. My also on mertazipine to help with anxiety and sleep patterns I’m allowed diazepam whenever i need them to help with panic attacks. All this I got from talking to my doctor and the local mental health teams. Remember it’s not a disability it’s a different ability.