Ok so we think we need advise on something and that's that we like to play music out loud using speakers etc and our parent tells me to use headphones but i can't do that sorry and then arguments start and we feel like the parent is basically taking the piss as playing music out loud is what i do for a living but we watched them videos and kind of understand the anger that the parent has towards us now but we get really upset sad about the music bit because there's us listening to sugar by maroon5 and we have the parent getting upset in an angry way towards us lot and we argue back by simply saying just leave us alone please so can someone give us some advice on how to make the parent understand that we r just listening to beautifull music and just being lovely showing it all off to friends n family instead of having the parent there going crazy about all this ?? we have been playing music since 2010 and we like us have been trying that sugar song by maroon5 ever since it first came on and for god sakes we can work from home by fifth harmony.And having to move away because of the parent being over sensitive with sounds and lights is not acceptible so yes i am happy i watched them videos and understand that autism better. But errm its not fair on us (music lovers) because we r not even 22 yet and the parent needs to understand our feelings and just get along and join us for dinner soon .arguments and arguments ent taking us anywhere because we can just play our music on our radio or phones w.e. But then its not fair on the parent because it might not be an illness but it is a condition that is going to be there forever and moving away from the house the parent rents is not helping us or the parent or the whole families sadly tho the parent was diagnosed just a couple of years ago so no one really knows how much that condition is affecting everyone else like us so thanks for the support,reading this and the comments.ando.x.