Published on 12, July, 2020
I've been feeling kinda lonely romantically lately a few months after coming out of an abusive relationship and don't really want to/am no good at "dating" the way NT people do it. The solution, naturally, seems to be dating sites. The trouble is, there are thousands of these sites around and I'm having trouble filtering the good ones from the bad ones, and especially finding sites that may be a bit more accommodating to a fairly shy bloke with Aspergers. Has anyone on here got any success stories from dating sites? If so, which site(s) did you use and how long did it take to find lurrrrrve?
I have Aspergers and Tourettes, I was diagnosed in 1998 by the National Autistic Society. To be honest dating sites are useless because they're very expensive wanting £30 a month or more, plus all dating sites i've ever been on are full of people who're amazingly shallow and won't even reply to your messages unless they think you're gorgeous. I'm on Plenty Of Fish and in my 'Sent' box all I see is "Read and deleted"..."Read and deleted"..."Read and deleted"..."Read and deleted".... I've been single 14 years now, in that time i've messaged thousands of women trying to be friendly, some have replied but only for a couple of messages and then started ignoring me.
Not one woman from my home town of Boston in Lincolnshire has ever rpelied to a message I sent her so....I have no faith in dating sites at all. I've never cheated on a girl and always treated them amazing.