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Life is so hard

Debby

Ive only just joined. 
i didn’t know he was autistic when we met, We both worked. When we didn’t we met up. Life seemed great. He cared, he was nice to me, he took me places. No one had treated me that nice before. After a while we got engaged and then married. I didn’t live with him before we were married. He wanted it to be done right. Then we moved to france. He commuted for a couple of years while he sold his company, Then we started spending time together,

Things seemed strange sometimes but I made excuses and bumbled through, all my friends lost touch. They didn’t like how he treated me. Even his brother and sister in law. I cried a lot, 

After two breakdowns I now see him as he is. Autistic. I’m too scared to say anything about it although I bought a book (hidden in the hen house) and read it so I know that’s what it is.

im 62 and he is 70. We have been married for 20 years, 

im scared of him. Everything I say is wrong and he explodes.

I created this email without him knowing, God help me if he ever finds out I have reached out.

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    I've also flagged this post so hopefully a moderator will take appropriate action when available.

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     has suggested you call the National Abuse Helpline when you are able. 

    Having Autism isn't an excuse to make someone live under threat of any kind of abuse.  

    It sounds as if you need help, so please make that call.  

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  • Rule 2: No personal information and identifiable content. The Online Community is public, so please do not share personal or identifying details about yourself or anyone else. This rule protects everyone’s privacy and safety. Do not share full names, addresses, contact details, social media profiles or photos that can identify you or others. You may share links to social media posts or videos if they are relevant, helpful or interesting and comply with these rules. Please ensure the content does not identify its creator unless they are a public figure.

    This is for your own protection. 


    I've also flagged this post so hopefully a moderator will take appropriate action when available.

    **

     has suggested you call the National Abuse Helpline when you are able. 

    Having Autism isn't an excuse to make someone live under threat of any kind of abuse.  

    It sounds as if you need help, so please make that call.  

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