What are you doing for Christmas?

"It's the most horrible time of the year" I sing this every year. Lol. Christmas is the worst. A horrible nightmare that lasts too long and gets too much hype.

I saw in a shop today they're already selling Christmas sweets, calendars and I saw an advert on TV and it's not even been Halloween yet! But it begs the question...

What are you doing this Christmas?

Undoubtedly I'll have family over. The lights will be too bright. I'll be forced to socialise. And I'll have to go to the Christmas work party. December is a long old month. I hate it. Please someone shoot me with a sleeping dart and let me sleep through it.

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  • When I was a teenager I gradually became aware that I hated the up and down, high and then low of the whole 'festive period' thing (as I have enough difficulty with that at the 'best of times' and is heightened (and encouraged to be so) during such times) and resent what it's all about, in many ways. I decided to keep the decorations up in my bedroom for a whole year at one point (they became faded in the sunlight and so on over time. In hindsight, the point I as partly making was that if 'they' could (e.g. sales+marketing) it would be Christmas all year round in order to increase sales if there was demand imo). Since then I've reduced my involvement+participation in it over my years to the point where I give no gifts, send no cards etc nowadays (and inevitably receive very little in return too). As a result my 'festive period' is a far less 'high and low' experience. Perhaps I will join in in some kind of moderate balanced way in my future (or maybe not)...

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  • When I was a teenager I gradually became aware that I hated the up and down, high and then low of the whole 'festive period' thing (as I have enough difficulty with that at the 'best of times' and is heightened (and encouraged to be so) during such times) and resent what it's all about, in many ways. I decided to keep the decorations up in my bedroom for a whole year at one point (they became faded in the sunlight and so on over time. In hindsight, the point I as partly making was that if 'they' could (e.g. sales+marketing) it would be Christmas all year round in order to increase sales if there was demand imo). Since then I've reduced my involvement+participation in it over my years to the point where I give no gifts, send no cards etc nowadays (and inevitably receive very little in return too). As a result my 'festive period' is a far less 'high and low' experience. Perhaps I will join in in some kind of moderate balanced way in my future (or maybe not)...

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