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Lack of Maturity

Aidie is using multiple profiles.

While I admit to doing that in the past, it's no longer my behaviour.

It's a reinforcement of negative stereotypes of those with Autism.

"When I was a child,  I acted like a child, I spoke like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I was a man, I gave up childish behaviour." (1 Corinthians 13:11)

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  • they were deleted by the  wonderful people above.. adele reported this to the moderators and to me. They may then have deleted more. 

  • I've been trying to find that post about Adele I couldn't find them accept them where you posted saying that she left the forum due to attacks on her?

    Also I don't don't know who autistic guy was but I don't really 'trust' that everyone is honest on the internet anyway I'm sure most people are but I don't really take that risk of being overly open

  • who attacked adele M ? 

    she kept asking me why are they attacking me why are they attacking me 

    just so u know i have fought against people physically who attack jewish graves and people. i expect you to do the same for me. 

    so did my father and so did my granny  and 2 great uncles.  

  • sorry can u ask these wonderful people what happened to Adele M ? 

    Who was AutusticGuy really ?

  • an example of MyKal suddenly turning on someone and accusing them of  trolliing him the hypocrisy

  • I've seen a few times people pointing out inconsistencies in peoples arguments in other posts and I'm sure there has been many times in the past before I was here where that happened

  • they have a care of duty to the people they send here

  • OK so if you're a Buddhist then I would assume that the act of mindfulness would be something you perform regularly like how Thich Nhat Hanh teaches for example. 

    Being aware of yourself and what you're doing and what you're saying and what Mykal posted about you just saying blaaa blaa blaa on his post doesn't seem very mindful.

    I'm not attacking your faith I have a great deal of respect for Buddhists and Buddhism I tried it for a bit in the past but it wasn't good for me at all.

    If I was to attack anyones faith it would be very obvious and besides I'm jewish so I know a thing or two about being 'hated' for my religion even though I don't believe and don't practice and people don't care about that all they see is 'dirty jew' so don't tell me I'm attacking a faith.

    No you don't have to explain you're right but it would perhaps help if you did try to explain from your point of view

    I don't see how deleting this post is in the benefit of the NAS 

  • why dont they point the inconsistencies in other people ?  or even themselves ?  I have been here for years without issue.

    Ask these wonderfully clean people about what happened to Adele M  ?

  • i dont claim to be a zen practitioner  i am a zen practitioner ( buddhism )  

    you have no idea how difficult it is to practice Zen.  In the early stages it doesn't make u a nice person thats the stuff in movies

    Attacking someones faith is against the rules of this forum.

    I do not have to explain anything to the people trolling/attacking me.

    i asked for a thread to be locked in the interest of this forum which is owned by NAS.

  • I'm not sure this constitutes hate speech, in the nicest possible way there are a lot of inconsistencies with what you say the type of person you are and how you act, people are just pointing out those contradictions and inconsistencies that's all.

    Trying to have the thread deleted rather than trying prove you don't have multiple profiles is quite telling, you have the right to have multiple profiles but using them for you're being accused of using them for just isn't really fair and decent, especially of someone who claims they're a Zen practitioner.

    Look, you have done anything to me directly I will admit but there are multiple people claiming the same thing it's worth addressing and you don't help your self by NOT trying to defend the fact you multiple profiles.

    What do you define as hate speech as well? because if it's essentially someone saying something you don't like or agree with is not hate speech that is just someone who doesn't agree with you and therefore you need to formulate some kind argument against that makes sense rather than just trying to silence them.

  • it stops the hate speech 

  • Trying to lock/delete this thread say's quite a lot without really saying anything... Just saying

  • Please keep this thread as evidence in the on-going investigation.

  • Ok. My head is swirling. 

    I have no idea who is in the right or in the wrong.

    I'm sighing heavily.

    Is it ok if I let it be known that I prefer to take every post here at face value, believe everyone is operating from their honest place,? Cos' otherwise how do we navigate the world?

    Hey, I read Eric Berne. The outside world is full of the 'Games People Play'. I'm not daft. I know it happens. But I prefer not to judge. I have no window into anyone else's head.

    May I please cling to 'every one is honest'? If I can't do that here, where can I?

  • Many of us feel this way. I personally have seen Aidie attack LemonLady who was knew to the forum and call her a "con artist" and be really beligerant/hateful towards her. This shocked me & I immediately unfriended them. They are still sending me messages asking why I changed my profile name, as if I have to explain myself to them, although they have been "unfriended" and only friends can send PM's.

    ***MODERATORS---Please take a look at this...it's a REAL PROBLEM & we've been promised that this is a safe space, where no one will receive bullying***** It is clear that many of us do not feel safe with this person around. It feels like bc they've been here for 4yrs+ (what they told me) that they are getting special treatment. What about all the post Aidie talked about a serial killer friend, talks about "killing" voices in their head? I don't & haven't felt safe with the person on the forum & it doesn't seem to matter.

  • I seem to remember they there are computer programs that can analyse pieces of writing to determine how likely they were written by the same person.  Perhaps we should use one of these programs to help us discover multiple identities.

  • Also, I believe that Mark-x Ramirez might be a US 'Catch a Predator' Agent.