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My partner and sons Dad says he resents me for taking Son to get his vaccines.

Nico.K

My Son has speech delay, sensory processing disorder and Autism, my partner has dropped the bombshell that he resents me for getting our Son his vaccinations as he believes having all the vaccines through the NHS cause Autism and he wanted to do it privately. 

This isn't the first time he has judged my parenting, to be honest it is making me miserable and that I can't do anything right. I am.the main carer for my Son, I have give up my career to look after our son which I more than happy to do as he needs me but I don't feel appreciated at all. 

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  • Unfortunately I don't have much time for people who believe unsubstantiated tales.  

    The problem - even now - is that there are sites & ways of asking on this question on the internet - and you'll be directed to someone who will / has spread that theory, often by means of shouting out facts that don't hold up to scrutiny when analysed closely.

    To suggest that someone would have had a better chance of getting an 'Autism free vaccine' as your partner implies by going private and not using the NHS is laughable.  Or would be if it wasn't so serious - and dangerous to make statements like that. 

    If you have a child, especially with the needs you outline - they should come first.  Crackpot, lunatic, blame-game theories help nobody.  I am sorry this wretched person is making you feel like that, and my advice is to put distance between you & the OP.  

    If you are EVER in any doubt as to matters relating to Autism or vaccines, please consult a health professional.


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  • Unfortunately I don't have much time for people who believe unsubstantiated tales.  

    The problem - even now - is that there are sites & ways of asking on this question on the internet - and you'll be directed to someone who will / has spread that theory, often by means of shouting out facts that don't hold up to scrutiny when analysed closely.

    To suggest that someone would have had a better chance of getting an 'Autism free vaccine' as your partner implies by going private and not using the NHS is laughable.  Or would be if it wasn't so serious - and dangerous to make statements like that. 

    If you have a child, especially with the needs you outline - they should come first.  Crackpot, lunatic, blame-game theories help nobody.  I am sorry this wretched person is making you feel like that, and my advice is to put distance between you & the OP.  

    If you are EVER in any doubt as to matters relating to Autism or vaccines, please consult a health professional.


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