Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi,
I have a partner of 28 years who is aspergers, Im burnt out and we are separated at present for my sanity and his I expect. Only just coming to grasp the problems we've had have all been to do with aspergers, any one else the same? Done the nervous breakdown, totally burnt out. Need help and advice desperately , very lonely, very frustrated, broken family.
Hi Turtle,
I am really sorry to hear that you are having such a hard time. You may like to contact our Helpline Autism Helpline, as they can provide you with information and advice. You can call them on 0808 800 4104 (Monday to Thursday 10am to 4pm, Friday 9am to 3pm). The Helpline is often very busy and you may not reach them straight away, but do keep trying if you don't get through.
The following link has more information: http://www.autism.org.uk/services/helplines/main.aspx
There's also information on the website for partners of people on the autism spectrum, some of which may be of help: http://www.autism.org.uk/about/family-life/partners.aspx.
I hope that helps.
Regards,
Kerri-Mod
Hi again Kerri, do you think its worth having him diagnosed officially, I know the family may see all the damage thats been caused in a more understanding light,
Contact the Helpline as they are best placed to discuss this with you.