autisic son trouble learning talks is quite rude

Hi all divorced father suffering with hereditary  spastic paralysis   life has been quite tough  married a america met online   divorced  lost house lived at parents   saw the council  to get living accommodation   son of 10  is in a bit of a state his regular patten changes when he comes to my parents is quite hard all the time he is quite rude tom a point  of being quite sexual towards me  does not seem to stop would this be because we are living apart?  was diagnosed   about 4  to 5 years ago mildy autistic with my illness I have to use a walking stick with makes it quite hard for me with my son when I  am with him thanks   

Parents
  • sorry to all    my  son  is  a  bit  more plain  horrible to me if  its  because of  my illness I am not sure as and when I ask him to do  something  he says no   as  my movement  leaves me   unable to  do much leaves me  unable to  do  anything

Reply
  • sorry to all    my  son  is  a  bit  more plain  horrible to me if  its  because of  my illness I am not sure as and when I ask him to do  something  he says no   as  my movement  leaves me   unable to  do much leaves me  unable to  do  anything

Children
  • Is it more like demand avoidance? My daughter can get very aggressive when told to do something we found giving her a few options helped with the outbursts, then when calm we talk to her about why it upsets people when you say horrible things