Er, hi and stuff

I figured it'd be the polite thing to introduce myself before I go blundering about the forums writing random stuff, as tends to be my wont.

My reason for being here is, well, I was actually directed here by an online acquaintance after discussing video-games and what-not since conversations seldom stay on topic.  Or at least they don't where I'm concerned.  So my actual reason for being here is as a "person with autism", though strictly speaking my diagnosis is of Asperger Syndrome, as was.  I kinda knew it was significant, and would probably answer a lot of the assorted and creative "issues" that I seem to experience, but y'know, there's time for that later.  I guess later has now arrived, considering I'm 46 years old.  Better late than never, I suppose.

I also have ADHD, just to make things a bit more interesting.  Or actually a bit less interesting, as I have no concentration, unless something is randomly interesting, in which case I have too much concentration and growl at anyone who disturbs it.  Though the "H" part of the diagnosis went in my late teens and I got fat.  So I seem to be spending much of later adulthood trying to lose weight with variable and random success.

I'm one of those people who doesn't view Asperger's as a disorder, for me it's just a personality type: sometimes one that's creative, sometimes one that's annoying and limiting, but if there's a "disorder" anywhere I guess I consider it one of society for really only catering for a rather limited set of personality types (or just the one, for that matter, whatever "Type A" looks like.  I think it looks like Katie Hopkins.  But I digress.  Again).

Er, was I making a particularly relevant point or just waffling?  I forget now.  I guess I was just trying to understand what it's all about, and to make life a bit easier to deal with, both for myself and my long-suffering partner who has to put up with my randomness and (usually intentional) absurdity.

Oh, and my real name is Christine.  I just think Vometia is more "me".

I'll stop prattling now.  Fortunately I've run out of concentration.  Yay.

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  • no probs, I say and post things that get misinterpreted quite regularly - I err on the side of bluntness apparently!

    Most people on the forum are unhappy because ASD causes friction and disagreements with the rest of the world. You are not alone in having a miserable experience with it. My point was that we look to blame or change something for the unhappiness but we don't always focus on the right thing - many have bad experience with parents or school etc and then blame their parents or the school for the problems they are going through. In fact it is best to really get under the skin of the ASD and unlock that puzzle before trying to change anything else.

    Anyways, I'm glad that you came back to forum as I thought I had upset you and I'm sorry for that.

    :-)

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  • no probs, I say and post things that get misinterpreted quite regularly - I err on the side of bluntness apparently!

    Most people on the forum are unhappy because ASD causes friction and disagreements with the rest of the world. You are not alone in having a miserable experience with it. My point was that we look to blame or change something for the unhappiness but we don't always focus on the right thing - many have bad experience with parents or school etc and then blame their parents or the school for the problems they are going through. In fact it is best to really get under the skin of the ASD and unlock that puzzle before trying to change anything else.

    Anyways, I'm glad that you came back to forum as I thought I had upset you and I'm sorry for that.

    :-)

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