Hey - this is me

Hey all. So I think I have autism traits as a female. In 50s and I have wondered for a long time whether I am dyslexic, ADHD, then my boss that I have worked for for about 10 years said no neither of those I think you are Asperger’s. Having read around it makes sense - the shutdowns/meltdowns, me always finding things difficult in big groups (although I am a clinician and excellent 1-2-1 which is why I never thought an autistic trait could be an option). I am an academic and my other thing is finding it so difficult to give talks/lectures - one of my bosses gave me the Wonder Woman pose and it worked. Before that many thought I was anxious (I am not) I just shook like mad before I was given a rule to follow! This is me and I think I fit here - but please tell me what you think also.