Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi, My little boy (aged 6) is currently awaiting a CAMHs referral regarding a probable autism diagnosis.
He has always shown signs but since before Christmas things have really escalated. Constant meltdowns in school, violent behaviour towards others and himself. He can currently only go into schools for the mornings as full days is just not possible. And even then last weel I was phoned at 9.50am one morning and 10.15 another morning to collect him.
An educational psychologist has observed him at school and says he shows signs of autism but we are waiting on CAMHs referral.
Can I ask how long has diagnosis taken for people? We're feeling really flat just now because bar us and the school noone is interested and my wee boy is suffering. School referred him to a Bernados support service? But they replied saying his case is too severe? So they won't offer anything.
I just want help for my boy and it feels like there isn't any.
Hi Thistlebuzz (great name by the way!) Sorry to hear things are hard at the moment. The community may have more firsthand experience with the things you describe but I thought you might find these links useful for the behavioural aspect. Individuals on the spectrum can often display behaviour that may be challenging. There will generally be a reason for this and it is important to try and understand the trigger for the behaviour when developing strategies. The following links are for information on behaviour and strategies: https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour
You may be interested in seeking some professional support regarding the behaviour. You can search for professionals in your area we are aware of on the Autism Services Directory: https://www.autism.org.uk/directory
You might also like to take a look at The Challenging Behaviour Foundation website for further information and advice: https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk. They also have an information and support service which you can contact by phone or email – details can be found here: https://www.challengingbehaviour.org.uk/for-family-carers/family-support-service/
Best of luck,
SarahMod
Thanks for the reply! The Challenging Behaviour Foundation is one I haven't heard of so that is brilliant thank you!