Seeking a diagnosis in middle age

Hello everyone!

I have just joined this community after completing yet another online self-test for autism.

So far, every online test that I have taken has suggested that I am probably on the spectrum and should consult with a professional about that possibility.

But its only now that I actually feel motivated to do that.

November 30th 2020, will mark four years of unemployment for me.

That's the longest I have been out of work in my entire adult life. I am 47 years old now.

Although there are neurodivergent people who are conventionally very successful in various jobs or business enterprises, I understand that the unemployment rate for people on the spectrum is much higher than that for the general population.

I am hoping that a diagnosis may ultimately lead to a strategy which would get me back into gainful employment.

But not into another call centre!

Been there, done that, don't see myself doing it again.

Although I have developed strong technical interests in my free time over the last couple of years, any job in tech would present precisely the kind of problems which I feel ill equipped to manage.

Working as part of a team, reading social cues, taking and giving feedback in a tactful way, etc.

In my youth, I feel that I was good at "masking" my oddness. But now, in my late forties, I feel that life is too short to pretend to be someone that I am not. 

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  • Hi, the waiting list for a diagnosis is long. Mine took about 2 years. Its worth knowing though to try understand yourself better. Good luck with the future employment goal.

  • Thank you!

    Yes, the NHS is a bit swamped at the moment.

    Figuring out how to broach the issue with employers is something I am taking seriously now. Simply masking as I have done in the past, will not work long term.

  • this is the catch 22 with a diagnosis of autism.

    its good to find out but do u even mention it to an employer ?

    My employers didnt know what to do and over reacted.

    they had just been hacked by an autistic 14 year old boy which did damage to our organisation

    anyways

    ok option 1. go get a diagnosis but dont tell anyone

     keep at you programming. i work with 4 developers everyday its a fast, stressful job. we are flat out on a covid 19 related software that needs completed ASAP.

    I dont know how good you are programming so please describe what you can do programming wise

    what programming language ?

    if u are well off do a IT degree.

    have u thought of doing some IT qualifications ? 

    Option 2 after 2 years in your next job

    go get a diagnosis and decide then if u are going to tell your employer

    other ideas

    look out for civil service recruitment for all civil service positions and for their IT department

    do the recruitment assessment tests

    they now have an autism friendly team within their IT and have policies etc

    if u get in there its flexible work and a union and reasonable help.

    Also more woman friendly.

    apprenticeships

    take a look at these as well but even they made need GCSEs

    finally

    this is probably the worst time i have ever seen to be looking for a job so dont be too hard on yourself.

    what have u worked at before ?

  • then u start searching for waterfall + testing 

    or 

    Agile + testing

    here is couple of links that took 3 seconds to find using google

    huddle.eurostarsoftwaretesting.com/.../

    https://huddle.eurostarsoftwaretesting.com/resources/agile-testing/

    in agile the developer write code for each user story

    I then test that each user story works

    after couple of sprints ( 2 week burst of code development )

    I check the whole thing works altogether ( end to end )

    I also do Exploratory testing when i get spare time.

    There is no end of testing you can do and u nvere have enough time

    for example when u  have tested functionally all is ok we go on to Load testing to see what happen when a 1000 people attempt to use the software at once.

    There is also security testing we dont do that. its very specialist ( hacker type stuff ) and very highly paid ( hint hint )

    One thing there is also Automated testing whereby you write code to test the application. These tests ( code that pretends to be a person ) then can be run every night as the project proceeds.

    the code is called Selenium ( webdriver ) in java but it is available in other languages eg javascript/python

    Automated testers are paid same as developers

    I am a manual tester the lowest paid IT people

    thats a 10 minute run over have a look around the web and see what you find and after reading more u are free to ask more questions

  • thats a huge question

    it depends on the methodology used

    its usually 

    Waterfall

    or

    Agile

    you need to know about then for software development.

  • Sorry for pumping you for information, but if you can "point me in the right direction", that would be great.

    Where should I start with software testing?

    I've "tested" my own applications, but not in a systematic way.

    Thank you for all your help Slight smile

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  • then u start searching for waterfall + testing 

    or 

    Agile + testing

    here is couple of links that took 3 seconds to find using google

    huddle.eurostarsoftwaretesting.com/.../

    https://huddle.eurostarsoftwaretesting.com/resources/agile-testing/

    in agile the developer write code for each user story

    I then test that each user story works

    after couple of sprints ( 2 week burst of code development )

    I check the whole thing works altogether ( end to end )

    I also do Exploratory testing when i get spare time.

    There is no end of testing you can do and u nvere have enough time

    for example when u  have tested functionally all is ok we go on to Load testing to see what happen when a 1000 people attempt to use the software at once.

    There is also security testing we dont do that. its very specialist ( hacker type stuff ) and very highly paid ( hint hint )

    One thing there is also Automated testing whereby you write code to test the application. These tests ( code that pretends to be a person ) then can be run every night as the project proceeds.

    the code is called Selenium ( webdriver ) in java but it is available in other languages eg javascript/python

    Automated testers are paid same as developers

    I am a manual tester the lowest paid IT people

    thats a 10 minute run over have a look around the web and see what you find and after reading more u are free to ask more questions

  • thats a huge question

    it depends on the methodology used

    its usually 

    Waterfall

    or

    Agile

    you need to know about then for software development.

  • Sorry for pumping you for information, but if you can "point me in the right direction", that would be great.

    Where should I start with software testing?

    I've "tested" my own applications, but not in a systematic way.

    Thank you for all your help Slight smile