Masking and making friends

Hi!

I need advice on how to stop masking? I never knew it was a real thing, and honestly just thought that everyone made severe changes to them selves based on what their wearing or even by who they are with.

I know who I am, however id like to just be myself. People have been close to me for over five years and im still masking completely with them and its come to my attention that they don't actually know the first thing about me.

I would like to make real friends too, i haven't had anh in a few years and want to learn how to do it. Anyone can help? I havent made a single good friend during five years of my degrees, and I'm awful at just being myself. I also think everyone hates me and i need to work through it. 

Advice please PrayPray

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  • I'm an excellent masker. However, sometimes I still portray myself as weird and foolish; e.g. Whenever I go to the shop, I NEVER remember to pick up a basket. Also, this afternoon, I was at a local shop and the reusable bag I brought with me wasn't sturdy enough to carry what I bought; two Two-Litre bottles of Semi-Skimmed milk, two Co-Op Cranberry Juice packs and two Kingsmill Wholemeal loaves.

  • Desmond you should use full cream milk as its better for you. Aidies YouTube suggestion was a good watch. No way masking is a lie it is like when cromagnon man and neanderthal man first met someone started talking and the other one was totally flumexed. Same for aspies and neuro typicals

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  • Desmond you should use full cream milk as its better for you. Aidies YouTube suggestion was a good watch. No way masking is a lie it is like when cromagnon man and neanderthal man first met someone started talking and the other one was totally flumexed. Same for aspies and neuro typicals

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