Here at last

Well I'm 59 years old and never had a diagnosis but here I am.

Been struggling with so many traits all my life, but until relatively recently, always felt that things would turn out better, one day.  I thought I just needed to fall in with the right people, get the right job, find the right neighbourhood, etc. etc. and then, everything would fall nicely into place.  It never happened, and now I realise its because I am fundamentally different.