Feel so lonely

Hi guys, I’m a single parent and I have a wonderful son who is 7 years old he has ADHD and ASD, long story short he was in mainstream and couldn’t cope he came home at dinner times every day and he then went into an assessment unit for 1 year which he loved they then decided he was able to go back into mainstream, I expressed my concerns as I didn’t think he would cope with the amount of children. He started back in September in mainstream and 2nd week in they asked me to come and told me it wasn’t working he had been suspended 3 times in 1 week not down to naughty behaviour but down to behaviour of him not being able to cope, they then suggested he only came to school for 2 hours a day and put in for him to be statmented. I had to give up my job as I worked in the day and we have tried a child minder but 4 days in she had to stop looking after him with immediate effect as she couldn’t cope with him and he just wasn’t in school long enough for me to carry on with work . Since September I have been coping but I just feel so lonely my son doesn’t like to go out anywhere not even to the shops, we had some good news he had his statement through and he starts a transistion into a specialised school end of  February which I’m so happy about as he’s able to finally have an education and be happy, but I just feel so empty inside, my family do help me but there so busy themselves to, I love my son so much I just feel like I’m going insane at the moment I see my friends going out and having a good time and I just have the four walls, I feel guilty for feeling like this as I know a lot of people are a lot worse of than me ... so very sorry for the long paragraph I just need to get it out. 

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  • Hi NAS36227,

    It sounds like you're doing a brilliant job in difficult circumstances, you might be interested to have a look at our Parent to Parent service - they offer emotional support to parents and carers of children or adults with autism. This service is confidential and run by trained parent volunteers who are all parents themselves of a child or adult with autism .

    You contact the team on 0808 800 4106. Please leave a message and the team will call you back as soon as possible at a time that suits you, including evenings and weekends. Alternatively you can use contact the team via web form: http://www.autism.org.uk/services/community/family-support/parent-to-parent/enquiry.aspx

    Or perhaps you might like to search the NAS directory to see what is available in your area for either you to build connections with other parents or for your son to socialise: http://www.autismdirectory.org.uk/directory.aspx 

    Hope you find something that is helpful.

    Kind regards,

    Heather - Mod

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