Hi I'm new to the site....

My little boy is nearly 4 years old and has been referred for ASD. The health visitor said it could take upto 3 month for my son to get seen. I understand that but my family is struggling in the mean time. My sons anger/meltdowns are getting out of control and every task becomes a battle no matter how small. 

There is sooo much tension,anger and fustration on all the family (me my parent and 9 year old boy) whilst trying to deal with how my little boy is on something we know nothing about and how to handle things. I suffer with depression and I put a lot of blame on myself and get soooo down on days where I could scream cos I don't know what to do.

Any help or suggestions would be gratley appreciate as I don't want a broken family cos of all the upset this is causing us