Published on 12, July, 2020
My love my life 23rd Feb I had a shocking phone call I have aspergers and he was on the way home he was in a car crash broke his back his left scapula and 11th rib he had to have major surgery to straighten his spine because I'm autistic I've been his carer his lover and friend I know I have to keep strong to get him through this his mentally affected aswell as physically I have to keep it inside how I feel but I know that will cause me to have meltdowns and alot of shutdowns I'm traumatised myself every time I go to answer the phone now I panic and I have flashbacks of seeing him in a&e on a board in pain with just a blanket coz had to cut his clothes all off with his lips blue and the doctor telling us its not good news with his injuries coz of the surgery he can now walk again but he did have to learn I'm just looking for support to help me and him get through it.
He was the bk seat passenger was a so called friend that caused the collision I keep being told his lucky to b alive I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
Shock is a major issue.
However, you love him. You can be there for him. My Grandad's Sister had to care for her disabled Husband, and they ended up with no kids. But she was good to me; whenever I was a boy. She died ten years ago.