Doubts about gender identity

My experience, based on a rather small sample, is that there is a strong overlap between being on the Spectrum and having at least some doubts about ones gender identity.  Possibly our lack of social awareness (= tact) means we are more ready to admit to something that most people would keep well hidden.  Possibly there is a real correlation.

At one point I found that of the four male Aspies regularly posting to a small forum, three had well developed female personas.  Too small a sample, but interesting.  Another forum member was a paintball ref and really one of the lads (and female).

Anyone else willing to speak for themselves?  Any parents noticed boyish girls or girlish boys?

Parents
  • Hello! such a sparse crowd!  Born in 1949 (male baby) before all of these fancy terms were coined.

    Obviously confused watching TV in 1950's and 1960's. I did not asked to be a boy. Both my Mother

    and Father passed before I received complete GRS to female in 2009..USA  Transitioned on the job in 2004. Yeah I though about Aspergers before....interesting.

    Whatever! I am high-functioning "something".  Masters chemistry 1975.

    Retired woman on SS; Jan 2017, USA.

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  • Hello! such a sparse crowd!  Born in 1949 (male baby) before all of these fancy terms were coined.

    Obviously confused watching TV in 1950's and 1960's. I did not asked to be a boy. Both my Mother

    and Father passed before I received complete GRS to female in 2009..USA  Transitioned on the job in 2004. Yeah I though about Aspergers before....interesting.

    Whatever! I am high-functioning "something".  Masters chemistry 1975.

    Retired woman on SS; Jan 2017, USA.

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