Escaping the system

Work, consume, die and never question why

I believe this is what we are being taught every day. Children at school are not taught to learn, develop, think for themselves and have enquiring minds. They are taught to become part of the system, good little cogs in the wheel, and never question why. Im a teacher so I know this first hand

In adulthood we are taught that the only way to happiness is by acquiring posessions. We are taught we need big houses, nice cars, designer clothes and endless updated technology to be happy. The I phone 14 will soon be out and no doubt Apple will be convincing all the millions that it has technology that wasn't in the first 13 phones, your old phone is now completely inferior and you really need this new one and the £50 a month direct debit contract to be happy! We always need bigger TVs and faster broadband. I find it interesting that in this cost of living crisis (which I am suffering from myself, having lost my job and had my energy bills tripled) the one thing people cannot live without is their smartphones. I honestly think people would rather starve or freeze than give up their phones. Some I think would rather not be able to feed their kids properly than give up their phone. I have just bought a £6 basic LG texting and calling phone from Oxfam and I couldn't be happier with it. We dont need this stuff, its just a marketing trick! I have an old iphone that I dont pay a penny for and just connect to the wi fi to reply to whats app messages but I am thinking of selling it.

Social media deadens the human mind. Endless scrolling has a numbing, almost hypnotising effect and reduces human intelligence. We numb ourselves with social media and endless expensive subscriptions to streaming services where we "consume content"

If you support a football team you have to buy a £70 piece of cheap polyester every few months to show you support them. You have to pay a £120 for a pair of shoes worth £20 just cos it has a tick on the side. 

You are bombarded with adds for deliveroo and uber eats to buy endless takeaways and then bombarded with further adds to pay £50 a month to join a gym to get fit again afterwards. 
Gyms are the biggest con of all. £50 direct debit to do the same exercises indoors that you can do outdoors in the fresh air for free

The only way to acquire all this stuff you "need to be happy" is to work every hour under the sun at a job you hate and never leave it for your whole life. Of course even then you still cant afford everything so you will need the greatest con of all, credit cards, to buy this stuff. You then get into debt and become even more enslaved to the system as then you can never leave your job or you wont be able to pay your debts.

Guess what....... Its all a con! You dont need any of this stuff to be happy and the human race has survived for thousands of years living a simple life without any of it. None of this stuff brings happiness and the more you chase it the more unhappy you will get. 

I am trying to change my life and escape the system. Once you see through it all you can never view life the same again 

Parents
  • This is something that I really struggle with. It’s ridiculous that’s we spend our entire lives working so many hours to finish the day being completely knackered to eat go to bed and wake up and do the entire thing again. I’ve never had a lot of money and don’t care for the latest whatever, but it’s now got to the stage where I am struggling to make enough money to just pay the rent and bills that I need. And that is because the pandemic ruined one of my businesses, which was okay because my other online business grew, but now the economic crisis has ruined that business too. My life is consumed with stress because of money, I despise money and feel like a robot every day and I’m so tired of the whole thing. 

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  • This is something that I really struggle with. It’s ridiculous that’s we spend our entire lives working so many hours to finish the day being completely knackered to eat go to bed and wake up and do the entire thing again. I’ve never had a lot of money and don’t care for the latest whatever, but it’s now got to the stage where I am struggling to make enough money to just pay the rent and bills that I need. And that is because the pandemic ruined one of my businesses, which was okay because my other online business grew, but now the economic crisis has ruined that business too. My life is consumed with stress because of money, I despise money and feel like a robot every day and I’m so tired of the whole thing. 

Children
  • Sorry to hear that you are going through this and your businesses have been ruined. It seems like there is one thing after another at the moment and just as one crisis finshes another one starts. I hope and pray the stress eases and you are able to get back on your feet a bit