Published on 12, July, 2020
Hi. My son is 13 and has autism and adhd.
He is scared of the dentist but does go and I sit in the room with him and reassure him when they are looking at his teeth.
However, last visit they said he has a cavity and needs a filling,
personally I don’t think he’s going to cope, but the dentist had told me they will be fine.
Is there anything I can do to help prepare him mentally for this? I have a horrible idea in my mind that as soon as they get the drill out he’s going to run away screaming. He’s terrified of anything medical and last time he had a blood test he had a full on meltdown and screamed the hospital down.
I had similar worries with both my children (they’re both autistic and I am too). we all struggle with dealing with things like dentist and medical appointments. If it’s any comfort in my experience (when they were younger) it often went SLIGHTLY better than I was expecting - so hopefully this will be the case for your son too. Good luck!