It my Diagnosis, I choice

I am getting fed up with everyone thinking they have right to tell everyone and there dog that I have Autism. Why do they think they even have right to do this, they wouldn't do this if I had other issue to deal with. But I have Autism to deal with, as such my view Is inconsequential. I tell them I don't want them to know and they just tell them anyway. There reasion for doing it is so telling to me goes something like this
"We tell them because it makes life for ME(talking about there selfs) easier" it not something like "We tell them because it makes life you easier"