Hello I really need help as I am feeling so fed up and sad about the way life is and with life being unfair when it should not be unfair at all as we are all humans and that everyone should be treated as individuals and equally just the same as everyone else. Also that everyone should finally get what they want as we all have rights and that rights apply to all of us. I feel like giving up sometimes on life and everything because I just cannot cope anymore with the way I have been treated like being treated badly or unfairly and not having any positives in my life at all. I just want the world and life to change and also get better for me and others that are going through the same thing as me and that life should never be unfair and that everyone should be allowed to have their freedom and to be more independent as much as they want at a young age as life should not be unfair in situations like that.
Hi Sholay. What has happened to make you so fed up?
Well when I am not getting the right help that I need, being treated badly and unfairly and not being listened to or understood and people saying things that are not helpful at all in my situations.
Yes I do Alice and that people need to stop saying things differently to me as they need to say the same helpful and kind things as everyone else and to treat me the same as everyone else as this is not right or fair with not everyone being treated the same or equally. Also people need to stop saying things that are not right or helpful like it takes even many years for some people to finally get what they want like find love, have a happy life, life to finally get better for me or other people when they have been through a lot of trauma like I have for years now and that it finally needs to stop not when it is the right time or it has to take even years for these negative things to finally end and for people to be treated how they want or should be treated. People also need to stop saying that that is the way life goes and that it does not always work like that when it should for everyone as everyone of all ages need good people in their lives no matter who they are, for not everything to always take too long or it’s time for things to change or finally get better as that mine and everyone else’s life should be able to get better at the same amount of time and not for these things to take years or even too long as we are all humans and that life can get better for everyone without that having to take many years when that is not true at all as life can finally get better for everyone right now or if not it could be only be a few years or months.
I hear you. I’m out at present. I’m a musician. Do you have support and interests? Life is so frustrating!
I do not have any support at all now and that things do need to finally change for me right now as it should have to take so long at all.
How about your GP? Are you diagnosed? I had to tell the GP first. Meanwhile there is support here, but emotional rather than practical. I got referred to psychologist. If you feel really desperate then the GP needs to know how you feel. I hope I am not making it worse for you. I also have good friends who listen, but appreciate they are rare.
Sholay09... Please do not bite my head off at this reply, but... It would help you a great deal, to pay a good attention to, and to carefully think through, many of the replies you have so far recieved, to your many Questions (and/or complaints about life), via the Threads which you yourself have begun, upon this Forum.
It is good to ask Questions, but it is not good to ignore the Answers.
Think about your own position, focus upon something UNIQUE about yourself, and then strengthen that... & only then use that to help others. It can be more than one thing. Simply Identify and focus your own experience/knowledge, Please.
(You cannot help other people if you cannot help yourself. And/Or - No-one can progress in life by going around just acting like a NET.)
I should say nothing else unless some support or understanding of what I just said is demonstrated. (I.e. Someone else support me here, Please, Thank You..!?). (Also, if something is not fully understood, such as Politics or the Economy, then try to learn more about it.) Lastly, "Alice" is correct, all of these things which you say upon this Forum should be said to a GP or similar. Print it all out, if you cannot remember all of it. End of My Post.
Disambiguating Cynosure said:(You cannot help other people if you cannot help yourself. And/Or - No-one can progress in life by going around just acting like a NET.)
I agree completely DC.
I remember when I was young, and I used to let a lot of things under my skin. I worked with an older guy who said to me once "You are right to be worried about that son, but you try to fight too many battles. There's always a battle, but sometimes you can't do anything. If your going to fight the world, all you're going to end up doing is getting very tired". If I saw him today I'd thank him for putting that into perspective.
There's things we can have a say in changing, but there are others that the people, countries, or cultures have to change for themselves.
Sholay09 said:Also that everyone should finally get what they want
This part is to Sholay,
Some people want different things. One persons dream, is another persons nightmare. Some people want some very bad things too.
Trying to change the world can be very dangerous. Stalin, and Hitler wanted to "change the world", it ended very badly.
The world is far less violent, and fair, than it was even 50 years ago.
That is a video where the man explains, that things are getting better. I hope it makes you worry less.
Ok thank you for that but I just need hope that it will not take years for good things to happen to me and for things to change for the better like for me to finally be treated how I want or should be treated and for me to have a nice boyfriend and more good people in my life as we all deserve it and that it should not take years for these things to finally happen to me as these things can happen to me at anytime and that everything should be the same for everyone and that nothing should take years for nice things to happen to some people or everyone at all as we all need good in our lives.