Giving and recieving gifts

I find it really difficult as I hate surprises and I don’t know how to react. I try to provide the expected response but as it’s dependent on the type of present, I don’t think I always get it right.

Same for me- I hate being surprised! I’ve found over the years that giving my friends/ family a list of exactly what I want is so helpful, and being told if they got it or not. It’s taken a while but now they know not to get me things that aren’t on the list, as they understand that it’s stressful for me. 

On the other hand, I love giving gifts, but only if I know the person is going to like it. I find I make a lot of gifts for people because I want them to know I value them, and so putting time into making something is my way of doing that and showing appreciation. 

I love giving gifts too, but I’m not very creative so mine are all bought. I do put a lot of thought into what people might like. I think people would appreciate your gifts because you have considered what they would like and you have poured yourself, your love and care,  into the making of the gift. 

I love giving gifts too, but I’m not very creative so mine are all bought. I do put a lot of thought into what people might like. I think people would appreciate your gifts because you have considered what they would like and you have poured yourself, your love and care,  into the making of the gift. 

Thank you!! It’s always the thought that counts, it sounds as though you’re really thoughtful and put a lot of effort into what you buy people !